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Monday May 2, 2005

I’ve been trying to get rid of an unwanted crush for a while now and I’m fresh out of ideas.

I’ve essentially got two option, neither one I find all that enticing.

1 – Sit him down and be brutally honest. i.e. “I’m sorry but I don’t like you like that, and I don’t think we should continue being friends”

2 – Do the really awful completely ignoring him thing.

Like I said I don’t want to do either. 1 requires being honest but knowing he’ll get hurt. 2 requires not being honest but hurting him anyway. But I don’t have the balls for 1.
Hints and subtlety have got me nowhere.

I’m finding this difficult because I’ve never really been in this situation before, or I just haven’t realised it. The crushes before have fortunately tallied up with my crushes. Plus he did the surprise crush, we were friends first and then you know…..ambushed.

I think I’m going to have to grow some balls.


1 Comment »


I’m thinking it’s going to have to be 1, sometimes it’s better to hurt someone than to lead them on (which I don’t think you are, but by not saying anything they still think there’s a chance)

good luck

May 2nd, 2005 | 10:56 pm
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